22 October 2017

October 8-15

This is a little obnoxious, but today's post is from October 8-15.  Just pretend you're reading it last Sunday.  Next week's post will cover some things that didn't make it into this post as well as the news from October 15-29.

I created a turn taking system that theoretically doesn't require the girls to stand next to my elbow pestering me while I put Matthias down for a nap.  It is also meant to eliminate the constant ping ponging of my attention when we're doing school.  So far it is doing a poor job on both counts.  :/  I like the idea, though, so we're sticking with it for a while.  I have a board with squares numbered 1-4 (and room for expansion).  Each child has a sign with his/her name on it.  When the girls need help, they are supposed to put their signs on the next number in line and then go back to doing something independently, with the understanding that I will come find them when I am next free.  The main breakdown happens in the second step, since they invariably come inform me that they've put the sign on a number and then hang around waiting for me to come check the board.  So far Gretchen uses the system to ask random questions, and Olivia uses it to put Matthias's sign on number 1 whenever he is crying.

Another recent craft was mailboxes.  A while ago we read a Frog and Toad story about a letter, and Olivia and Gretchen spent the afternoon drawing pictures and writing letters to anyone who came to mind.  Olivia's letters followed a standard "I hope you have a happy day" form, but Gretchen's were a bit more exciting.  Anyway, they got few replies, but the afternoon did kick off an obsession with checking the mailbox for new letters.  One day I suggested to Olivia that she write Gretchen a letter so that Gretchen could get mail.  Gretchen of course reciprocated, and now they always want to write letters to each other.  Since I didn't want them scampering out to the mailbox constantly, we made indoor mailboxes out of shoeboxes, wrapping paper, and copious amounts of packing tape.

Remember back in July when I detailed an adventure that happened to our friends while we were along for the ride?  Their problem was that the alternator on their van died.  I was recently remembering that post and thinking about how in later years that story would seem completely unnecessary and out of place.  As it happens, it was neither unnecessary nor out of place, because the same thing happened to our van on Saturday.  We were driving back from Fort Wayne and slowly lost power to the van.  As Gretchen describes it, "we got slower and slower and then we stopped at a gas station and now the van is broken."  It was, in fact, a pizza place where we stopped.  We made it to within a mile and a half of our house, but a stop sign got us in the end since we couldn't get the van to go once we rode what little momentum was left across the intersection.  I steered as Bryan pushed the van into the nearby parking lot and the girls marveled at his strength.  We made it further than we thought we would, and the Weys were able to come get us and take us to our house.  Josh (Hodges, not Wey) knows how to fix alternators, so Bryan went to buy one at the auto parts store and on Sunday afternoon they swapped out the bad one.  Our van is now running again.  Hooray.  :)

Kaitlyn has updated her word for elephant from "enferma" to "eleferma."

School has been going well.  Olivia's reading is improving by leaps and bounds.  She's into consonant blends and seems to have no trouble remembering the wildly inconsistent rules of English.  Olivia had started writing on her own, so I ran her through a couple of pages of "this is how to print letters properly" and now we're working on cursive.  Her math is also going well.  She has recently decided she can only add and subtract using manipulatives (blocks are her favorite, but fingers will work), so I'm looking for ways to slowly break her of the counting habit.  It may not ever happen completely since I still count points on numbers when I do math on a piece of paper (in my head I'm fine, though!).  Gretchen's letter recognition is nearly perfect (although she did somehow decide that W was P the other day).  Other than letters, Gretchen's school work is mostly fun stuff -- mazes, stickers, and coloring sheets.  She wanders in and out as she pleases, but generally at least starts the day's work with Olivia.  Kaitlyn also wants to do school, so she has some coloring pages, a pair of safety scissors, and a dry erase marker that she can use on our wipe clean books.  They are all kept out of reach when she's not using them.  :-P

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18 October 2017

Bonus Post: Sound Bites 25

Olivia, holding a toothbrush with the wrong end between her front teeth: It's like I'm a talented rabbit.

Kaitlyn: I get dressed and watch a movie and eat lunch.
Bryan: She has plans for the day.
Kaitlyn: Well, I need to watch a movie.
Bryan: You need to watch a movie?
Kaitlyn: I need to watch a movie Sofia.
Bryan: You have to watch a movie?  What will happen if you don't?
Kaitlyn: I need to watch Sofia.
Bryan: But do you have to watch a movie?
Kaitlyn, pointing at her dress: Well, look at Elsa!
Bryan: That's your most compelling argument so far.
Kaitlyn: She's pretty!
Bryan: Elsa is pretty.
Kaitlyn, pointing at an icon: That's the Jesus!
Bryan: That's Jesus.
Kaitlyn, bouncing on the bed: That's mommy's bed.
Bryan: Yes.
Kaitlyn: So, I watch a movie on the couch!

Olivia: That was when we were all here but we did not have Matthias born yet.

Kaitlyn: She needs her pacifier.
Me: She's a he.
Kaitlyn: No, she's a Fias.

Gretchen: Olivia has to turn on the light.
Me: Why does Olivia have to turn on the light?
Gretchen: Because I didn't.

Me, absent mindedly singing: Bees will buzz, cantaloupe, dandelion fuzz...
Bryan: Did you say cantaloupe?
Me: Yeah.
Bryan: Cantaloupe dandelion fuzz?!  Are you serious?
Me: Those aren't the words?
Bryan: Kids will blow dandelion fuzz.
Me: Really?  Bees will buzz, cantaloupe, dandelion fuzz...  That's not right?
Bryan: No!  What is cantaloupe dandelion fuzz?
Me: It's a list of summery things.  Like in The Sound of Music: Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens...
Bryan: I demand that you put this in your sound bites.  Cantaloupe dandelions.
Me: It fits!

Me: You're out of luck, toots.*
Gretchen: I'm not a toots.  I'm just a human and a Gretchen.

*I looked up toots, and one definition I found is as follows:
A term of endearment, roughly equivalent to babe, sweetie, or honey.  Note: Only applicable if you live in a black and white movie.

Babysitter: Is Gretchen usually particular?
Me: Yes.
Babysitter: Very, very particular?
Me: Welcome to my life.

Olivia: Mommy, is 100 bigger than all the numbers?
Me: No.
Olivia: Turn off the music so Gretchen can hear you.
Me: *turning off music* No.
Olivia, to Gretchen: She said no.
Gretchen, to Olivia: She just forgot.

Olivia: What is this road called?
Me: Allentown.
Olivia: That's a nice name.  Would it be a good name for a daughter?
Me: Not really.  Town is a city.
Olivia: But August is a month.
*Note: August is also her cousin.

Olivia: You better hurry up and get there before I am starving.

08 October 2017

October 1-8

Matthias has found his thumb.  It does not work as a soothing device, but he is quite adept at yelling around it as he holds it in his mouth.  He is also pretty good at scooting around on both his back and his stomach, though he has no knowledge of the progress he is making.  This talent really shines when he is mad: he will put his face down and muscle himself across our entire queen sized bed if given the opportunity.

Kaitlyn can do a somersault.  I'm not sure where she learned how to do it since the older girls don't do them, but she is excited about her new skill.

When Gretchen holds something up for me to observe, she sticks it right in front of my nose.  So close, in fact, that if I breathe too hard then my nose will run into whatever she's holding.  When I attempt to back up, she follows me, thrusting her prize in my face even more insistently, "Look at it, Mommy!"  I'm not sure if she's extremely nearsighted or if she just thinks other people are.  Or perhaps she's worried that if she doesn't take up my whole field of vision then I won't properly pay attention.

Olivia and Matthias are good buddies.  Olivia always wants to help, and is very proud of her ability to hold him.  Matthias, for his part, has decided that Olivia is the least of three evils and seems to know that she will keep him safe from the greatest of three evils.  He smiles at her more than he smiles at anyone (except that car baby), and he is generally content to sit with her for a few minutes while I take care of other things.

Since we didn't know when in July Matthias would make his appearance, I had to find a way to let the girls know that not everything on their calendar was set in stone.  I decided on parentheses, and after I explained them to Olivia she immediately loved them.  She happily adds parentheses to activities on our calendar whenever it looks like we might not accomplish them.

We took one last trip to the zoo on Monday.  It closes for the season today.  Kara was able to meet us there, and we spent quite a pleasant day visiting Australia and Africa.  We lingered over the reef since the fish are so visible and exciting.  Normally we can only stay so long before the noise of a dozen or so children in the small, echo-y space drives us out, but this time we were the only ones there.  After we saw the kangaroos, the girls wanted to see the lions and giraffes, so we took a rather speedier trip through Africa.  Kaitlyn had a chance to feed a giraffe, but she panicked and threw the lettuce at its face rather than holding it still.  Related note, giraffes do not catch food like dogs do.  Her reaction is probably due to the fact that the last time she fed a giraffe (a few zoo trips ago), it licked her thumb.  She's been traumatized ever since.  After Africa, we sat down for a picnic lunch and then we headed home.

On Saturday we went to the park.  There was another family there, and Olivia screwed up her courage and asked a little girl what her name was.  They happily played tag together until a third family came.  The third family had a little girl who apparently already knew the girl Olivia was playing with, and those two went off to play their own games.  Olivia persisted in trying to join them, so points for not being scared off, I guess.  When we went home, she told us all about her new friend and explained that even though the other girl came, they could still be friends all together (thank you, Sofia the First).  She does want to write a letter to Arabella, and perhaps even visit her house.  She does not understand that we don't know where this girl lives, or that the likelihood of ever seeing her again is slim.

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01 October 2017

September 24-October 1

How I greeted Bryan on Sunday morning--
Me: I have bad news.  Kaitlyn threw up.
Me: I have good news.  It was entirely contained to a towel on the bathroom floor.
Me: I have bad news.  Matthias was on the towel.

At least that happened before his bath.

Monday was our seventh anniversary.  Bryan was sick, which wouldn't have been a problem except that he took Nyquil instead of Dayquil and went to bed before the kids.  As it was, everyone was asleep by eight, leaving me to my own devices for several hours.  I made a double batch of runzas and put enough for seven meals in my freezer.

Tuesday I took the girls (and Matthias) to the zoo.  We rode the train, which was exciting for the girls but disappointing for me -- it doesn't go past any animals!  I'm not sure what they were thinking when they designed the train loop, but you see zero parts of the zoo as the train takes you down through some trees and back up alongside a lake.  After the train ride, we stopped by the Indian Farm section of the zoo (also not very zoo-y).  The goat pen is open for visitors, so we went in to brush the goats.  Kaitlyn especially was excited about touching the goats.  Gretchen like brushing their heads.

Tuesday after dinner I took the kids down to Sidney in preparation for visiting the Kleins the next morning.  Since we started an hour closer to their house, we did get to see Eva for a few hours before she headed off to school after lunch.  After we got back to Sidney, Matthias and I ditched the girls with Grandma and went home. 

Bryan and I had schole (good conversation with good friends, preferably over good food) with our church friends on Wednesday night.  We enjoyed the portabella burger recipe that Grandma Aufdemberge and I discovered back in 2008.

Murry said she'd keep the girls until Friday, so Matthias and I took Thursday to run some errands.  I spent far to much time and money in a teacher supply store that I learned about recently.  Despite my intentions, I did not get around to practicing for the upcoming orchestra concert, nor did I get any sewing done.  I did get to go to my Thursday night Bible study without any children, which is a rare occurrence -- usually I take Matthias.  He was sleeping when I left, but quite distressed by the time I returned home.  :(

On a related note, I joined a Bible study.  It's through the Catholic church we attend, although I convinced my Orthodox friends to join, too.  :)  We're going through a series called The Armor of God that focuses on a few verses in Ephesians 6.  I'm finding it quite enjoyable.

Friday was a little bit crazy since I had to get the girls from Sidney in time to be back for Gretchen's dance class.  We made it, though.  The Weys came over in the afternoon to make playdoh and talk about shapes (two completely unrelated activities).  Then Olivia went to dance.  I have a feeling that Fridays will always be a little crazy since we have the two separate dance classes to attend.

Saturday was just lovely.  Everyone was feeling better after their various ailments.  I took the girls to Joann one at a time to pick out fabric for a Christmas present I'm making.  The whole family went out to Bryan's aunt and uncle's house to pick apples.  We enjoyed the fall weather and didn't get too annoyed by each other.  :)

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