31 December 2023

December

Highlights:
The lockers I acquired at the end of November have been cause for rearranging furniture. They went where the coat rack used to be and the coat rack moved to the back of the lockers where there once were bookshelves. The bookshelves migrated to Olivia and Kaitlyn's room to divide it in half, but then Kaitlyn missed being able to see Olivia, so one bookshelf is along the wall instead. The other two went to the boys' room and to our room. The small appliance shelf that used to be directly across from the entrance is now by the coat rack and is a baby toy shelf (side note, our baby toys are pared down to a few tasteful buckets!). The small appliances needed a shelf still, so I took one that was in our bedroom (since we had a new bookshelf now) and moved that to the kitchen. At the same time that all this was happening, Bryan decided Theodore needed a bigger dresser, so the little dresser he had been using is now a pantry dresser. Bryan is resigned to the changes and will even admit that the lockers are working beautifully, although in public he likes to complain about how his wife put lockers in the kitchen.

Somewhat related, Gretchen has her own room now. I don't remember exactly when that happened. Recently. Kaitlyn had asked for the middle room over the summer, and we cleared out the toys and set up a full size bed (one of her requests). She made it almost until we were done putting kids to bed before she bailed because she missed her sisters. Bryan and the kids had a meeting when I was gone one night and decided that people would take turns sleeping in there, but it turns out most of our kids don't like being alone. We had a couple of awful weeks where we were constantly negotiating whose turn it was to sleep in there and who would get it tomorrow and where the other boy would sleep when he was lonely because his brother was gone. Once the novelty wore off, the bed just stayed, but no one really used it. Then the middle room spent some time as an inconvenient craft room due to the bed. Finally, Gretchen asked if she could have the room. She wanted her bunk bed, though, so I moved the full size mattress to the boys' room to be their bottom bunk since they always sleep together anyway. We got Gretchen's bunk bed moved in and she's happily taken over. We still needed a smallish craft space, so Gretchen has 2/3 of the room and the closet and there are thin fabric dividers blocking her space off from the craft space.

My midlife crisis (1/3 life crisis?) is turning out to be colored hair. I have a bleached streak that I change periodically, but decided this month to go to a hair place for the first time in my life to get some more color done. It's very subtle since my hair is so dark, but now I have blue and purple hiding under the top layer of my hair.

The middle kids had a Christmas play and band concert. Matthias was a donkey, Kaitlyn was Shepherd #12, and Gretchen played xylophone (she still plays guitar, but there aren't guitars in band, so she's trying her hand at percussion). I told Bryan he's lucky because I have some sort of weird appreciation for beginning music events, so he never has to go. It's not even "That's my Barney!" appreciation. I just sit there and cheer for the tiny successes while I giggle at the fails.

We had Barhorst Family Christmas, aka Grandma's Christmas, on December 9. There was a train theme, so the kids got train conductor hats and there were boxes arranged like a train to hold the presents. After the presents were opened, the boxes held the kids. :)

Barhorst Family Christmas is not to be confused with regular old Barhorst Christmas, which is when we get together with Bryan's dad's side of the family for a big Sunday afternoon party. It's crowded and crazy (15 siblings, 49 grandchildren, and an ever growing number of great grand children will do that) and we only go sometimes. We went this year and took some photos in the cutouts.

Bryan said we should start a new tradition this year, which is an idea that I obviously did not appreciate. He decided on a hot chocolate charcuterie board, claiming I had been inspired after last Christmas and that he was just reminding me of my goals. Regardless of whose idea it was, we pulled together a hot chocolate charcuterie board this year on Christmas afternoon and it was the fanciest thing I've ever served. It was also quite delicious. I guess this tradition can stay.

My family started arriving the day after Christmas. We saw the Bossards, the Smiths, and the Columbus Fentons. When we built our basement we considered guests, but somehow we only considered one family at a time, which is not generally our reality. The Bossards took the suite, the Fentons took the music together room, and the Smiths snuggled in upstairs, 3 in Gretchen's room, 2 in the boys' room, and Gretchen in with her sisters.

Pictures:
Furniture changes:


Hair:

Enjoying the photo board:


There was Thanksgiving on the other side:

Christmas play:


Family pictures:


Hot chocolate is the best kind of charcuterie board:

Josef hides from Mia:

A very satisfying puzzle:

Kaitlyn and Lenore:

 Theodore digs dinosaurs out of eggs:

Vivian, Juliana, and Kaitlyn at church:

Elaine and Olivia at school:

Grandma's Christmas:

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